I love you Uncle Mike!

I've been going through my pictures lately, and I came upon this one a few days ago.
This was taken at Lake Powell, probably in the late 80's or early 90's. My family goes there every year, even since before I was born. I have many fond memories there.

My Uncle Mike loved photography, and he had an awesome camera that he would carry with him. Thanks to him we have some great pictures, especially of our Grandpa. I don't know why I made this sign for him to take a picture...maybe he asked me. I'm not sure.

Driving with Uncle Mike to Powell was the best, because he had a huge van with lots of room to stretch out in, and he always had a cooler full of ice cold Pepsis, many of which I partook :) It was fun playing with my cousins Lindsay & Jenny, and it made the 12 hour trip go by a lot faster.

Mike was always cheerful, a very pleasant man. He had a great laugh. He loved to joke and to tickle me! He was an expert mechanic, and I know he got tired of us always calling when we had car trouble! But he was always willing to help. He's my dad's older brother, and they look a lot alike, except for Uncle Mike's ever-present beard. I wish I had a picture to post here, but he preferred to be behind the lens.

I just found out that my Uncle Mike passed away today, peacefully, in his sleep. I am still in shock, as he was very young, and there were really no warnings. He leaves behind his beautiful wife Mary, and his two daughters Jenny & Lindsay, as well as 3 grandchildren. He was a wonderful man, a great father, and he will be sorely missed.

I hadn't talked to him in awhile, not since my grandmother's funeral. He only lives an hour away, but life just seems to get in the way of spending time with family these days. I regret that. I joked about calling him last week with my dad after my accident, but I didn't want a car problem to be the reason I called him out of the blue, so I didn't. I regret that too.

At times like these, I am so thankful for the gospel, the knowledge that Mike is okay. He is actually the lucky one, free from these worldly cares. He gets to have a lovely reunion now with his parents. Although I regret not taking opportunities recently to show him that I care, I know that he knows I love him, and I know that I will get to tell him that again someday.

Until we meet again, I love you Uncle Mike!


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8 validations:

  1. Tara September 30, 2008 at 6:00 PM

    I am so so sorry. I am crying reading this post. My aunt just passed away a week and a half ago completely out of the blue too. I am still stuggling with it and very sad about it. So I completely feel your pain. I too am grateful for the gospel and the Good News it does bring.

    You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

     
  2. Jules AF September 30, 2008 at 6:18 PM

    What happened????

     
  3. Kristina P. September 30, 2008 at 6:18 PM

    Heather, I am so sorry. He sounds like a wonderful man.

     
  4. Brittany Marie September 30, 2008 at 8:33 PM

    I'm so sorry that happened!

     
  5. Wade September 30, 2008 at 9:47 PM

    He really is a great guy. I will miss him. He enjoyed the shots I took at myself and loved to play along. Those are the people I like the most.
    He earned a special place in heaven by the way he took care of his mother after his dad died. I have always admired him for that effort.
    Our prayers are with Mary and the girls.

     
  6. Chatty Cathy World October 1, 2008 at 12:28 PM

    Sorry Heather, you do have great memories!

     
  7. "Miss Kris" October 3, 2008 at 4:41 PM

    I just cried a little. He sounds like a great man and I LOVE that picture. It's so wonderful that you know you'll see him again.

     
  8. Miss Bookworm October 5, 2008 at 1:41 PM

    I am so sorry Heather. I love feeling the obvious love and respect you have for him comme through in the writing and picture you have shared. I'll be thinking abouut you and yours, and am glad your faith can be your comfort :)